Mumbling Mommy

Caring for a terminally ill family member can take you on an emotional rollercoaster ride. It is tough dealing with the inevitable death approaching while trying to be as supportive as possible to them.

Experts call these tumultuous feelings anticipatory grief. If you currently have a family member at the end of their life, here are few tips on how you can be there for them:

Provide and Support their Spiritual Care

When people know that they are nearing the end of their lives, they reflect on their experiences, beliefs, and values. They might be concerned about how they would like to be remembered or if they need to resolve issues with people from their pasts. Others might sometimes feel conflicted about their choice of religion. On their own, it can be quite a scary experience. When you are caring for a terminally ill family member, you can lend a listening ear to their worries or help them find answers to the tough questions that need answering. You can also spend time reading spiritual books, listening to music, or participating in religious activities together. 

Provide Emotional Support

A person that is facing death may feel a broad range of distressed and conflicting emotions; they might be worried about who they are leaving behind and whether those people will be fine after they pass away. What you can do is to provide emotional support, and this has many benefits. Sometimes your physical presence alone can be soothing and comforting to them. You can also arrange unique visits for others that your loved one would like to say their goodbyes. Additionally, you can create a peaceful area that will calm your loved ones’ nerves and soothe their worries and emotions. Create a room with dim lighting, relaxing candles, and add elements that your family member loves to make them feel more at peace.  

Get Their Assets in Order

Many dying people worry about whether their living relatives would be able to take care of themselves. So, you can help them gather essential information and documents, complete their wills if they have not, and plan final funeral arrangements.

You can also seek legal assistance, especially in situations where their illness results from their former workplace conditions and hazards. If your loved one was exposed to harmful toxins like asbestos and has developed a terminal illness like mesothelioma, you can file a lawsuit against their former employer for damages. The settlement funds can help with medical treatments and can be put in place for other surviving family members as financial support. If you are in such a situation, you can speak with a highly qualified mesothelioma attorney for professional assistance.  

Dealing with a loved one’s impending death is a challenging experience, and while you might be overly emotional and anxious, remember that your loved one is probably going through much worse. Hopefully, these tips have provided you with enough information on caring for them until they pass away. 

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